Sunday, October 21, 2012

Love and Dating

In Greek there are four different definitions of love. These are:

Storge- The love from a parent to child, in which the needs of the child literally become the needs of the parent.
Philia- Is brotherly kindness and a warm and close relationship that has similar characteristics of intimacy.
Eros- This is where the term 'erotic' comes from, a love between men and women and includes a romantic love.
Agape- A love towards the fellow man, regardless of prior knowledge of them. This is also known as charity.
 
Because many people misattribute the form of love that they feel they often do not have the love that can sustain a committed relationship. This is also why there are "3 P's" of dating so a couple can really get to know each other. These are: planned, paid for, and paired off. These go in relation to the general obligations of a husband which are to preside, provide, and protect the family.
 
These are shown before marriage by the model of dating, courtship, and engagement. Dating should only develop into an exclusive relationship of courtship when the couple is in consideration of marriage and the courtship into engagement when they are certain of marriage.

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